AITAH Because I won’t be inviting my mothers husband to my graduation

This is my first post ever so bare with me. I (18M) will be graduating from high school in exactly a month. Earlier this month my school let us know we’d all be receiving 8 tickets for graduation, so I immediately thought of who would be invited. The people who I planned on inviting are my mother (39F), my grandfather (62M), my cousins (21 and 15 F), and possibly my great aunt (67F).

If you haven’t guessed, my mother’s husband (38M) is not included in this. To put it nicely I can’t stand this man nor the ground he walks on. The reasons why would make this post very long but the main reasons are the way he treated me and his entitlement. If you guys want to fully know why, I’ll tell you in an update. He feels entitled to my love and respect because he married my mother when I was 12 and had my half brother when I was almost 13.

It’s no secret I can’t stand this man and never had been a secret but when I was going over the guests with my mother earlier, she asked me if I really didn’t intend on inviting him to my graduation and I politely said no which caused her to sit in silence and then say she’d call me back before hanging up on me but now I’m getting the silent treatment from her.

I feel like I shouldn’t have to sit in peoples faces who I don’t like on my graduation day nor do I feel like anyone should be shocked about it because I knew I didn’t want him there when I was in 8th grade. But she seems to think I’m ungrateful for this so, Reddit AITAH?

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